If this feels like you…

You’re strong. You handle a lot. You show up.

But lately…

You’re tired of carrying everything. 😮‍💨

Your life feels busy but not aligned. 🌀

Your mind never really shuts off. 📱

There’s always something else that needs to be done 🧺

You're handling a lot, but inside you feel disconnected. 💔

You don’t even know what you need anymore 🤍

You know something needs to change. 🌫

If you nodded at any of these… you're overloaded, you’re not alone, and you’re in the right place.

I created Defining My Way™ for the woman who looks like she has it together… but inside feels overwhelmed, scattered, and disconnected from herself.

So many moms are managing kids, work, money, schedules, and everyone else’s needs — while quietly feeling like their life is running them.

I help overwhelmed moms who are tired of carrying everything get back in control of their lives so they can build clarity, stability, and income — without losing themselves.

This isn’t about doing more.

It’s about creating a life that actually supports you.

  • 🌿Reset

    When life feels heavy

    Reset is for the mom who knows she can’t keep living like this.

    This phase helps you slow down, make sense of what you’re carrying, reconnect to yourself, and find clarity again.

    ✨emotional relief
    ✨self-connection
    ✨direction
    ✨grounded starting points

    Start with Reset 
  • 🎯Refocus

    When you’re ready to get your life together

    Refocus is where clarity turns into control.

    This phase helps you organize your time, build routines that fit your real life, and create structure that brings peace instead of pressure.

    ✨life systems
    ✨planning that works
    ✨balance
    ✨follow-through

    Explore Refocus 
  • 💰Rise

    When you want stability, security, and something of your own

    Rise is for the mom who’s ready for more than just coping.

    This phase focuses on money clarity, financial confidence, and income pathways that support your future.

    ✨financial peace
    ✨income growth
    ✨long-term stability
    ✨legacy building

    Explore Rise 
Ashley Springs – Educator, Mentor & Content Strategist for Busy Moms

I’m Ashley. I Was You.

I’m not teaching this from theory.

I’m living it.

I’ve been the mom in survival mode. Carrying everything. Raising kids. Managing life. Pushing through grief, pressure, and seasons where everything felt heavy.

I also know what it feels like to slowly rebuild — emotionally, mentally, and financially.

To move from surviving to stabilizing.

From stabilizing to building.

Defining My Way™ exists because women deserve more than just getting through life.

We deserve lives that support us too.

Read My Story →

Real Moms. Real Results.

The women in this space aren’t just buying tools. They’re finding clarity. They’re building consistency. They’re gaining confidence. They’re creating stability. They’re learning how to stop carrying everything alone.

"I didn’t realize how much I had put myself last until I started the Purpose Map. The prompts made me stop and really think about what I want again. For the first time in years, I wrote down goals just for ME.” – Jazmine, Mom of 3

"This planner gave me the structure I didn’t know I needed."

"I used Ashley's budgeting tools and paid off over $12,000 in credit card debt." - Anonymous New Mom

"I finally feel in control of my time, my money—and myself." - Keisha, Single Mom