I'm Really Not Sure What I Need!
✨ You’re Not Being Unrealistic. You’re Tired of Doing It All. You’re Overloaded.Â
Let’s fix that—one glow-up at a time.
👋🏽 Welcome
Hey love—I'm Ashley, the mom behind Defining My Way™. If you’ve landed here, you’re probably juggling a thousand things and wondering when you get to feel balanced, caught up, and in control again.
This page is your starting line. Whether you’re overwhelmed, underpaid, unorganized, or just tired… I got you. This is where your comeback starts.
You have TWO paths to help you glow-up: A) You go with my most popular tools (little thinking, quick help!) or B) I guide you based on your goal.
A) These are my most popular tools for busy moms who need a fresh start—like yesterday.
Product Why It Helps Reset & Rise Bundle Your all-in-one digital jumpstart for balance, budgeting, and mindset. Built from the Struggle eBook My real-life journey from teen mom to thriving CEO. Read it. Feel seen. My Hustle & Flow Planner A physical planner designed for moms who want their whole life organized.
B) Pick your goal and I’ll show you where to start:
👑 Goal 🔗 Button Description Balance & Clarity I Need Peace & Productivity Get focused, set your goals, and stop spinning in survival mode. Fix My Finances I’m Ready to Reset My Budget Budget better, ditch debt, and start seeing progress with your money. Build Income I Need More Streams Use what you already know to create new income—even without a biz. Wear My Superpower I Want the Boss Mom Merch Shop empowering hoodies, totes, and tees that match your glow.
✨Still Not Sure?
Need help figuring out your next step?
DM me on Instagram @busybalancedpaidmom or shoot me an email at support@definingmyway.com—I’ll help you find your perfect starting point.